Deep, soul level healing comes from love. If you feel you need some kind of healing in your life, have a look first and foremost at your self love. Now ask yourself a few honest questions:
If you really loved and valued yourself, what changes would you give yourself permission to make in your life?
Do you really love who you are?
Can you love yourself with all your faults and mistakes?
Is your love for yourself and others dependent on acceptable behaviours?
Learning to love and value yourself is the key to healing your life.